Too well

I dunno why I put this picture here. It may not match the things which I am going to blog about. But anyway, I have no particular topic la. I just want to leave an entry in jiaplace on such a lovey dovey day called Valentine's Day. Although itz a bit late liao.. but nvm la, as long as I have that heart to post sth. Hahaha..

This mid sem break is really a holiday for me. I didn't bring back any stuff to study. Microb test? Dun care la. Genetics? Nvm, study next time when the tests are near. Hehe..

Just now I went shopping with my mum. Mother and daughter went shopping in such a day. Eh, itz nothing wrong la, but just a bit weird. Like what my sister said...

My sister : You mei you gau chuo? Qing ren jie dao chu dou shi yi pair pair. Ni men liang ge sa po pao qu 'hang gai'? (in mandarin n cantonese, rojak la. It means huh.. You all sth wrong ar? Valentine's day couples everywhere. You two gila boong[me n my mum] go shopping in such a day? )

Earlier during lunch time....

My mum : Jin tian shi Qing REn jie wor. Bu zhi dao ni Ah Ba hui you shen me biao shi? Ni men jue de leh? (In mandarin.. Today is Valentine's day wor. DUnno what your dad will do leh? WHat do you all [me and my sisters] think huh?)

Me and my sisters : Haih.. mm sai lum la. Mou biao shi ge la. Sai hei la. (in cantonese.. No need to think la.. He wont do anything one la. DUn waste effort thinking la.)

My mum : Hai lor, gu mm dou dai ga dou hei gam lum. (in cantonese.. Ya lor, can't belive that all of us come to the same conclusion.)

*and it ended with laughter...*

Well well, the mood of the conversation was ok, no complaints, no laments. Simply because my mum knows my dad too well; we kids know our dad too well; ANd my dad knows my mum too well..

But.. sometimes just because we know a person too well.. we kinda take that person for granted. We replace acts of love, words of love with sth else, ie 'silence' - we hide those acts, those words. We don't really express them coz' we thought that that person will understand how much we love him/her. Mana tahu.. that person is waiting for you to tell that to him/her.

Haih..

As I grow older, I realise that there's a lot of things to learn .. BGRelationship is not just going out and study 'paktohlogy' together.. there's a lot more than that. There's a commitment ~ life thru thick and thin. There's a same journey. There's a same source, where God is the centre of all things. *Wah, why suddenly talk about this stuff? Neh, it just crossed my mind.*

Itz also learning not to be selfish, not to take things for granted. Taking people for granted is a huge mistake in whatever kinds of relationship. A mistake which you would never want to repeat..

Hmm.. just some reflections la.. as I look at my parents, my cousins.. my friends.. ya..

Itz getting late.. Nitezzz